In most relationships whether platonic or romantic, most women are the primary gift givers in relationships. Women are known to go above and beyond to give gifts of kindness, love and appreciation despite the occasion. While women are often known to be the primary gift givers, it is also important to know that women love to receive gifts just as much as they like to give them. Here are a list of ways on how to find the best birthday gift for her:
While as a man you may know that your woman desires a great gift, you may struggle with what to buy her here are just a few guidelines on how to find the perfect gift for the woman in your life.
- Pay Attention
Most women are great at showing or even telling the men in their lives exactly what is they want for their birthdays or other special occasions. As a men your primary responsibility is to pay attention to the signs your woman shows you. For example if a woman wants a ring she will normally go out of her way to compliment another woman’s ring in your presence or may even go as far as actually placing pictures of the ring she wants around the room.
- Get Creative
Are you short on money and want to give an amazing gift but you don’t quite have the financial resources to do so? Get creative. Women love creativity and gifts that require a level of thoughtfulness for example if the woman in your life loves the outdoors and also loves movies, consider giving her a movie night out on the lawn at a local park. Sometimes men have a tendency to overthink gifts and fail to realize that women will always appreciate a creative gift over a gift that only required you to spend a bit of money.
- Look at Her Pinterest
- Ask Her What She Wants
Sometimes men make gift giving much harder than it has to be. If you really have no idea or no insight on what you should buy the woman in your life, don’t waste your time overthinking it and risking getting her a gift that she absolutely hates. Instead go out on a limb and ask her exactly what it is she wants. Her answer may surprise you and in many cases may actually warm her heart to know you cared enough to actually ask her what she wants. Now it`s time when you’ve got the tricky task of finding the perfect way to present your gift(See here).
- Clean Up
Every woman it doesn’t matter who she is spends a mass majority of her time cleaning up around the house especially if she is a woman who wears millions of different hats. One of the easiest gifts you can give a woman is probably to clean up. Not only will you save her time and energy during her day but you will save her the mental stress that often comes along with walking into a house that is extremely cluttered. If the woman in your life is already a neat freak, consider adding a few pieces that fit her taste into the home. Your thoughtfulness will go along way.
Ever heard the saying, the easiest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach? It should be no surprise that the same is true for a woman. Women are often held to a higher standard when it comes to cooking so to take that load off her consider, cooking for her. Is the woman in your life’s favorite restaurant Olive Garden? Pop open a bottle of wine and set your ambiance and prepare to cook an Italian dining experience that will melt your woman’s heart away.
- Don’t Always Rely on The Obvious Gifts
If the woman in your life is used to always receiving the same gifts for every special occasion, spruce it up. For example, if your woman loves books, instead of giving her a gift of only a book, consider finding out her who her favorite author is. Once you determine who her favorite author is use the greatness of social media in our favor and consider reaching out to her favorite author to see if perhaps he or she can actually buy the perfect gift for you.
- Plan An Activity You Can Do Together
Planning an activity that you and your woman can do together is always a gift that women will appreciate. If you live near or in an area that has a lot of fun dating spots, consider planning an activity like a paint and sip where couples can come together to paint and drink wine with a big group of people. Many couples love this idea simply because it gives you an opportunity to not only get in touch with your creative side but also an opportunity for you and your beau to connect.
Don’t Over Think It
One of the best things you can do when trying find the perfect gift for her is to not overthink it. This all can be easier said than done; however, not over thinking can cause you to buy a gift that you not only dislike but that the woman in your life hates.
What has helped you find the perfect gift for the woman in your life? Share all the juicy details and any tips you may have in the section below, you never know who you may help.